FromunknowninternetuseronLittleRedBook:
“LocationisinIssaquah,needittobemoreobvious?”
“Unfortunatelytotellyou,hemarriedatleastin2017.”“Checkitbyyourself.”
“Whydon’tyoucheckthishouseaddressonredfintoseeifthisishishouse?Whydon’tyoucompareifchaichai(hispet)livesinthathouse?”“Whencanyoubelieve?”
“PropertyinfoinUSAispublic.”
Fromme:
“Howtocheck,can’tsee.”“Idon’tknowhishouse’saddress.”
Acopyofdeedfrom2017showingthatarealpropertylocatedinKingCountywastitledtoCKandCK’sspouse,FengRespondentng,ascommunityproperty,wasalsosenttomebyatleastfourunknowninternetusers.Thedeedshows“FengJiangandCK,amarriedcouple”
ThisscreenshotisacopyofthedeedshowingthetitleofthecommunitypropertyownedbyCKandhiswifeFengJiang
Inthisdeed,itshows“FengJiangandCK,amarriedcouple”“in09/25/2017”
ThesescreenshotsshowthatunknowninternetuserinformedmethatCKpurchasedthatpropertywithFengJiangin2017asmarriedcouple,andsendmetwophotosofhiskidwhichhepostedonInstagra
FromunknowninternetuseronLittleRedBook:
“Theypurchasedthathousein2017asmarriedcouple,andstilllivethere.So,hiswifeknowsthisfrombeginningtoend?Orshesuperloves,afterbirthtobabywillattackyou?Youconsider,whitepaperandblackwordsonpropertydeed.Marriedcouple.Maybetheywillnotdivorcefrombeginningtoend,youaretheonlyonebeinghurt.”
ThesescreenshotsshowthatunknowninternetusersentmephotosofCK’skidwhichhepostedbyhimselfonInstagra
Firstpicturewaspostedbyhimon02/16/2023withlocationIssaquah.On02/16/2023,heapproachedme,askingmeifmyperiodfinished.Becauseon02/10/2023,hehadsexwithmeandchockedmyneckwhenIwasinperiodandinpain,whichcausedmeunbearablepainafterwards.On02/20/2023,hesaidhewillseemenextweek.HealsotoldmehewenttoCaliforniaon02/16/2023withhismothertoseehissister
Secondpicturewaspostedbyhimon03/13/2023withlocationIssaquah,whilehetoldmehewasinCaliforniaduringthattime
ThesescreenshotsshowthatunknowninternetuserinformedmethatCKhasmarriedatleastin2017andsentmeadeedofhisproperty
FromunknowninternetuseronLittleRedBook:
“Moveon,thatmanmarriedlongtimeago.”“Iknowthem(KangDaiandhiswife),theymarriedbeforeCOVID-19,in2017.Youmoveon.”“Hisnameisdk,Ididn’trecognizewrong?”“ChaichaiIthinkIwouldn’trecognizewrong.”“marriedlongtimeago,2017.”“excolleague.”“AnywayIknowthathemarried,I’veseenhiswife,beforeCOVID-19.don’trememberspecific.Youmoveon.Anywayhemarriedlongtimeago.IseehedeletedhisLittleRedBookposts,shouldbefoundout.”
Fromme:
“Doyouknowthem?Doyouknowwhenhegotmarried?”“Whendidyousee?”
ThesescreenshotsshowthatunknowninternetuserinformedmethatCKhasmarriedin2017,hiswifehasbabythisyear,andsentmeadeedofhisproperty
FromunknowninternetuseronLittleRedBook:
“Icareaboutyouafterreadingyourstory.Howcouldyou’vebeenhurtsomuchbyscumbag.IalsoworkinAmazon,andknowthismaninperson.Actuallyhemarriedin2017.Hiswifehasbabythisyear.Heisjustaveryordinaryandunremarkableprogrammer.Youarestudent,mayadmirehim.Afteryourgraduation,whenyougotobigfirm,youwillseemanypeoplewhoareexcellentthanhim.Histhreevaluesaredistortedandmorallycorrupt,reallydoesn’tworthyoutowastetimeonhim.Reallyhopeyoucancareaboutyouremotionalsituation,cheerup.Notsurewhaticanhelpyou,ifyouneed,tellmeanytime.”
“Thisishismarriagecertificatefoundbotherpeople.YoucanfinditinKingCounty.Isendyoulinklater.”
ThesescreenshotsshowthatunknowninternetuserinformedmethatCKhasmarriedin2017,andsentmeadeedofhisproperty
FromunknowninternetuseronLittleRedBook:
“Thisoneisnotmarriagecertificate,butthiscertificatesaysthatin2017theyweremarried,whichcouldnotbewrong.”“Hedoesn’tadmitinfrontofthecertificate,isstilllyingtoyou?”
“hewillgiveyouafakemarriagecertificatetomorrow.Youcansearchonofficialwebsiteandfoundthattheyweremarriedcouplein2017.Whydon’tyoubelieve?”
“Ifheadmittedhemarriedin2017,thenhehasbeencheatinghismarriagefor6years.”
Fromme:
“Thisisnotmarriagecertificate?”“Iaskedhimtoshowmehismarriagecertificate,hesaidwilllookforittomorrow.”“Whydoesn’theadmit?”
ThisscreenshotisacopyofthedeedshowingthetitleofthecommunitypropertyownedbyCKandhiswifeFengJiang.Thisdeedwassharedbyunknownusersaroundandsenttome
Inthisdeed,itshows“FengJiangandCK,amarriedcouple”“in2017”
Iwasdeeplyshocked,andthenfellingreatanddeeppain,whenIlearnedthatCKwasatleastmarriedin2017,andalreadyhadachild
ThesescreenshotsshowthatunknowninternetusershavebeendiscussingCK’sbaby’sphotosfromhisInstagram,andthosepeopleknowhi
ConversationsbetweenunknowninternetusersonLittleRedBookandWeChat:
“Ifoundhisbaby’sbirthphotopostedbyhim.”
“Iprobablyknowwhoheis,Iwillaskmyfriendtocheckhis“Amazon”badgephototomorrow.”“DidyouseeonLittleRedBook?”“Ins”“What’shisins?”“hisdog’sins”“shibachaichaiinu”
“seemstobesomeoneyouknow.”“Ihavebeenpingwholemorning,Indeedis.”“Hasn’themarriedin2017andpurchasedhouse?Hasbabyrecently?”
ThesescreenshotsshowthatunknowninternetuserinformedmethatCKhasmarriedin2017andhasbabyinFebruary2023,
FromunknowninternetuseronLittleRedBook:
“IfheistheInstagraminfluencerIsaw,thenhehasbabythisFebruary.Oneofmyfriendssentmehismarriagecertificate.Hemarriedin2017.Ifthatcertificateisreal.Ithinkyoucansuehim.Uselawtoprotectyourself.Emm.Youdon’thaveevidence.”
ThesescreenshotsshowconversationsbetweenpeoplewhoknowCKandhiswife
“Iamreallytoofamiliarwiththem”“youareatfrontline,mouthsotight.Reallyfriend.”“sign,trulymoralcorruption.Ijustdon’twanttomakemess.”“Hmm,seehowtheydealwithit.”“Ididn’treadall.It'sreallydisgustingtoputitalltogether.ShecametoSeattle,hiswifeishere,hestilldon’tlethergo.”
“hiscurrentcolleague’sfriendsallpostedon.Iguesstheyallknow.Chinesecommunityissmall.”
WhatIalsolearnedfromtheseinternetuserswasthatCKhasbeenveryactiveonover20socialmediaplatforms,withabout100,000followersand30Millionplaysintotal,thatCKattemptedtoestablishanimageof“elitesingleyoungman”onhissocialmedia,especiallyinWeChatgroupsconsistingofhisfollowersofhispodcast“TalkAboutAmericaafterMeal”(inChinese饭后说美国).Hissocialmedianameusedtobe“BossDaiinUSA”onallsocialmediaplatforms.HedisclosedhisWeChatcontactforpeopletoconnectandfollowhimandsharedwiththepublicmanyphotosofhimself,hisdog,andhischild
IwasnotanactivesocialmediauserandwasnotawareofCK’soverallsocialmediaaccountsandthepublishedcontentsbefore
Belowscreenshotsshowcommentsfromhisfollowers:
“Heportrayedhimselfaselite,singleman,valuesintegrity,knowledgeable,talented...”
“Hesetafew500membersgrouponWeChat,peopleallthinkheissingle.Feelingalldeceivedbyhim.Hisfollowerssdon’tknowheismarriedandhaskid.Somewanttointroducegirlfriendtohim,heneversayheismarriedandhaskid.Speechless.notsurewhyhehidessuchinfo.”
“Hesaidhegraduatedfromcollegein2015andwas21yearsoldthatyear(nowheis29).”
“Heportrayedhisageas1990s.makepeoplebelievehewasbornin1994.Heistoogoodatestablishingimageinhispodcast.”
Exhibit18:04/24/2023:KangDai’sBlames,DeathThreats,Lies,Confession,SolutionviaWeChatCalls&Messages
OnApril24,2023,atabout2:43a.m.,CKstartedtocontactmeonWeChat.Onthatsingleday,withinabout13hours,CKcalledme13timesviaWeChat,andtalkedtomeforabout219minutes.CKalsosentmeabout50messagesonWeChat
IntheseWeChatcalls,CKyelledatmeandthreatenedmewithhisdeath,andourruintogether;healsothreatenedmethathiswifemightcomeaftermeanddothingshewouldnotbeabletoknow;andhealsothreatenedthathewouldreleasefiveemailcorrespondencesbetweenusthatcontainedintimatelanguages
IwasshockedbyCK’sthreatandfellingreatfearaboutwhatheandhisspousewoulddotome
IntheseWeChatcalls,CKalsotoldmethathewouldnotblamemeforthepublishedstory;buthewouldreporttopoliceandsuethoseindividualinternetuserswhosearchedandexposedhispersonalinformation,whocriticizedhimonline.CKalsotoldmethatmystorywas“stolen”bysomeoneelseonLittleRedBook,andthatstorywasallovertheinternetbecause“itwasrandomlycirculatedandpostedbyinternetusers.”
IntheseWeChatcalls,CKdeniedthathiswaslivingattheaddressshownonthedeedandinsistedthathewasnotmarriedbefore2022.Heagaindeniedhisnameis“CK”(代抗),andtoldmeadifferentChinesename.Hepreviouslydeniedhisnameas“代抗“(CK)on03/21/2023
IntheWeChatcalls,CKalsorequestedanin-personmeetingwithmeafterhisreturntoSeattleon05/07/2023.IrefusedplainlyandtoldhimIdidnotwanttoseehimanymore.Iclearlyexpressedmydesiretostayawayfromhim,especiallyafterhethreatenedmeinvariousways
Facedwithcompellingevidence,afterabout20morehours,CKfinallyadmittedhehaddeceivedmeabouthismaritalstatus“frombeginningtoend”.CKalsoapologizedtomeforwhathedidtomewhileblamingmeatthesametime
AfterapologizingonWeChat,CKtoldmethatI“couldbringanydemand”tohimforcompensation
IinsistedthatCKmakeWeChatcallstometoapologize.CKrefusedtocallandthreatenedmeagain–“let’sendupdestroyingeachotherlikethis.”
ThenCKalsotoldmethathisplanwas“tocontinuouslyapologizeandlistentomydemands.”
AtthelatenightofApril24,2023,IsentaWeChatmessagetoCKandmademydemand:CKneedstoapologizetomebycall;provideawrittenapologyandexplainwhyandwhereheliedtomeforsomanyyears;andprovidefinancialcompensationfortheharmandlossIsufferedduetohisyears-longlies.NextdayIdroptherequestofapology,onlyleftfinancialcompensation
BelowaretrueandcorrectcopiesofWeChatcommunicationrecordsshowingthecallsandmessagesCKandIhadonWeChatonApril24,2023,andCK’swrittenstatements
BelowareCK’soriginalwords:
CK’sThreateninHisWife’sNameinCall
Chinese“我老婆可能会揪着你不放。我不知道她会干什么。”English:“Mywifemaycomeafteryou.Idon’tknowwhatshewilldotoyou.”
CK’sBlames&DeathThreatensinCall
CKyelledatme:Chinese”你就是要毁了我!”English:”Youjustwanttoruinme!”
CKthreatenedme:Chinese:“你这样会导致我和你鱼死网破!”English:”Youractions(postourstory)willforcemetobringbothusdown/ruineachother!”
Chinese:”(你写爱情故事为了抒发心中痛苦的“出发点不重要,我只考虑造成的结果。你已经造成了这样的结果(我和你的事情被曝光了)”English:“Thestartingpointdoesn'tmatterwhenyouwriteyourlovestorytoreleasethepaininyourheart.Ionlyconsidertheoutcomeyouhavecaused.Andyouhavecausedsuchanoutcome,whereourrelationshiphasbeenexposed.“”
Chinese:“需要我以死谢罪吗?”English:“Doyouneedmetoapologizewithdeath?”
Chinese:“华人圈很小。所有人都知道了,我朋友同事都知道了”English:“ThereareveryfewChineseinSeattle,thegroupissmall.Allknewthis.Allmyfriendsandcolleaguesknewthis.”
Chinese:“我感到五雷轰顶”English:“Ifeelthunderstruck(asthiswasrevealed).”
“Youcausedthisoutcome.““Youcreatedthissituation.“
Chinese:“那我也去写,我就写你没写出来的,想怎么写就怎么写。...用你那5封邮件”English:“ThenIwillalsowrite/postonline,I'llwritewhatyoudidn’twrite,inanywayIlike......I’llpostthe5emailsyousenttome.”(Theemailcontainssexualwords,heusedtosayhelikedit,hesaidthemoreIsay,themorehewantstofuckme.);andencouragemetosayinbed
Chinese:“我会报警告那些网友。我不怪你。我相信你。”English:“Iwillsuethoseindividualswhosearched/revealedmeonline.Idon’tblameyou.Itrustyou.”
Fromthebeginningofhiscall,Irepeatedlyasked:”Areyoumarried?Whendidyougetmarried?Whydidyoudeceiveme???”
Hisresponsewithliesandmanipulation:
“married/haskidismyprivacy.Idon’ttellanyfriendaboutthis.Youcanaskaroundifyoudon’tbelieve.”“can’tIhavesomeprivacy?”
“WhydoyouaskwhenIgotmarried?Whatareyoutryingtodo?“
“Can’tyouhaveahappyconversationwithme?““Ifwecan'thaveahappyconversation,let'snotchat.“(whenIaskedhimwhenhemarried,andwhenhecalledmetoblameme)
“IdeceivedyoubecauseIdon’twanttoupsetyou,andIdidn’twanttotell.”
“Iamseriouswithyou/whenIinvitedyoutostaywithme.”
“Ifmyprivateintentionwastojustsleepwithyou,whydidIrefuseyousometimes(whilecontinuingsleepingwithme)...Icouldcometoofficeandseeyoueverydayhappily.Ididn’tbecause(Ilike/loveyou)(notcasual).”
“Ididn'tmentionit(marriedin04/2023)earlierbecausehumansdonothavetheabilitytopredictthefuture.””Tomorrow,Icouldevendie.”
“Imarriedthistime(in04/2023)”“Imarriedin04/2022”“Imarriedin05/2022”
“Wehadcontact,nottogether(withhiswife)”
“Wearenotalwaystogether,dependingonhowyoudefinetogether(withhiswife).”
“Whatdoyoumeantogether?”“Iwaswithsomeone(hiswife)sometimes,onandoff”
“Iamnotalwayswithsomeone.”“DidyoualwaysthinkIamsinglesoyoualwayswantedtoseeme?”
“IapologizeIdidn’tclearlytellyouwhichmonthtowhichmonthIwasnotwithsomeone(hiswife)(from2016-2020).”
“Youcanbuyhousewithanyone,noneedtomarry.”
“We(KDandI)hadpossibilitybefore,butlatershe(hiswife)gotpregnant,wehavekidnow,soItoldyounotpossible.”
“Iplannedtoapologizetoyou3monthslater.”“Ishouldnotblameyou.”
“Icausedyoursituation/”socalledemotion”.”“Iamtheonetoblame.Icausedthisresult.”
Ididn’thandleyouremotionswell….”
“CanwetalkfacetofaceafterIreturntoSeattle?”
“Iamthinkinghowtomakeyoufeelbetter.”
“Givemesometime,Iwillthinkaboutsolution,howtomakeupforyourhurting.”(Igavehimtime,hesetallhissocialmediaprivate,changednameandpicture.Then,thereisnosolutionforme.)
“Idon’treadyourpost(oflovestory).Ihavenotimetoreportyourpost.”
“Allofmyinformationhavebeenrevealed,myHimalaya,Xiaohongshu,companyinfo,whichcompany,whichemployee...everything.Theyfoundmypodcastandme,notbecauseofyourpost,butbecauseotherpeopletookscreenshotsofyourpostandmadenewpostandgothighclick-byyanyanyanxianxianxian...”
“Iwasruined.Ican’tseemyfriendorgobacktocompany.Myfamilyisruined...ChinesepopulationinSeattleisverysmall...Allofmycolleaguesreadthis.Peoplestartedsearchingandinternetviolenceonme.Iwillcallpoliceforthosepeople’sinternetviolence,notagainstyou...theycausedmyworkproblem...over10friends/colleagueshaveseen...manypeopleabusedme...“
“Ibelieveyourintentionwasnottorevealmebutjustwriteyourlovestory.”
“youhideyourpostsfirst,tomorrowIwilltellyouwhenIgotmarried.”
“theysaidIgotmarriedatleastin2017,theydon’tknowme,theymayrecognizedwrongperson,whichisnotme.”
“IhavenopossibilitytostayinSeattleanymore.”
“atleastafteryouhideyourpostsfirst,wecandiscusshowtohandlethisissue.”
“everyonetoldeverythingaboutme.”
“youcanblame/criticizeme”
“Iapologizeforcallingyousomanytimes”
“theinfluenceof“Iwasruined”islessthantheinfluence/painIcausedtoyou”
“hideyourpostsfirstbeforeItellyouwhatIlied...thenthereispossibilitytodiscuss”
“manypeopleseepostfromyanyanyanxianxianxian”
“anotherpostfromxiyatudengtuixiuzhuanjia”
“Ifeelyoushouldfeel(myheart)”
“Idon’tknowhowtofaceyousoIdidn’ttellyouIgotmarried.”
“Iwaswithher(hiswife)againbeforewebrokeup”
“Iwasnotjustseeingyouforsex”
“whenIsaidyouandIhavepossibilities,becauseIwasnotsurewithher(hiswife)”
“Ihaven’tseenyouasenemyyet.Iknowyoudon’tseemeasenemyyetbecauseyouarestilltalkingtome.”
Exhibit19:OnlineDefamationtowardsMe,100000+reviews,MyPain&Fear
SincefromApril24,2023,Istartedtofindonlinepostsattackingmeandinsultingmewithslandersanddefamation.Myschool’snamewasrevealedinthoseposts
UnknowninternetuserssuggestedthoseslandersanddefamationfromCK,CK’swife,andtheirfriends
Ihadnowaytoidentifytheindividualswhomadethosepostsattackingme,butIwashumiliatedandscaredbytheliesanddefamationinthoseposts.Idefendedmyselfbyreplyingtosomeofthosepostswithevidence
Ellen-asdisclosedasCK’swife’sfriend,hasbeenspreadingafewoffensiveanddisgustingslut-shamerumorsinAmazonBeatutyGroup,whichhad500members
“ShecalledhiswifeandsaidthatsheiswillingtoserveCKwithhiswifetogether”
It'suncertainhowmanytimestheserumorshavealreadybeenspread.Thathascausedmelotsofpainandfear
“Someoneinthegroupsaidthoseattackingcommentsonyouseemlikefromhiswife’sfriends.”
“Hiswife’sfriendsaidyoucalledhiswifeandsaidthatyouarewillingtoserveCKwithhiswifetogether”
Ifeltdisgustinganddeeplyhurtbythis
“rumorswasforwardedbyEllen,maybeit’shiswifeherself”
Ifeltdisgustinganddeeplyhurtbythosedefamation
“Sheisworsethanawhore.”“Whoregetspaid.Sheisfree.”
“Sheislessthanasexbuddy.”
“Shedeservesnosympathy.”
“Sheissuchabitch.Ifmanisnotbad,womanwillnotlove.”
“Thismandoesn’trespectheratall.”
“Thisguyisascumbag/asshole.Thisgirlsisalsonotagoodthing.”
......
Otherslandersonme
Exhibit20:CK’sManipulation&Revenge,MyPain&Fear
ActuallyIhaveforgivenCKon04/24/2023.Ijustneededthetruth,apologyandsolutionfromhim.However,hethreatenedme,usedmeagain,toldmemorelies,andthenabandonedmewithouthesitation
Eventhough,Istilldecidedtomoveon
However,movingonisnotsoeasy,especiallyinmycase.Ineededclosureandexplanation.On05/10/2023,afternotcontactingCKatallforabouttwoweeks,whenIfeltthathugepainagain,IsenthimapolitemessageonWeChataskinghimtotakeresponsibilityforhisdeceptivebehaviors.However,IreceivednoresponsebutsoonfoundtwoofmyLittleRedBookaccountsreportedsimultaneouslyataround1AM,despitethefactthatIhadnopostatallatthattime.Whywashesoeagertoreportmyaccountat1AM.?Whatwashishiddenagenda?Afewdayslater,Irealizedthatonceagainhehadusedhisknowledgeofme,andmanipulatedmytrust,trappedmetocontacthi
DuringtheperiodfromlateAprilandmid-May,IcontactedCKmultipletimestoseekforclosureandsolutionfromhim.CKhaskeptsilent;hehasnevergivenmeanynoticeofunwantedcontact.IfCKwishedso,hecouldhavesimplyblockedmeordeletemeonWeChat,themostfrequentlyusedcommunicationchannelbetweenusinthepastsevenyears.Ifthatoccurs,allmycontactwouldnotbeabletogothrough.CKdidnotdothat.Allhedidwaskeepingsilent,promptingmetocontacthimagainandagain
AfterIreceivedthetemporaryprotectionorderon05/18/2023,IhaverealizedthatthiswasadesignedtacticofCKtoobtaintheprotectionorderagainstmetorevengemeandharmmyfuture.CKreportedmetopoliceonMay1,2023withlies,andPoliceconfirmedthatthereisnothreat.Heactuallystartedcollecting“evidence”planningtorevengemeatleastfrom04/26/2023
CK’sstatementstopoliceandinpetitionforprotectionorderarenottrue.IneverengagedinanybehaviortoharassordefameCK,IneverhadanyintentiontoharassordefameCK.Asawomanwhowasdeceived,manipulated,hurtdeeplyforsevenyearsbythemanIloveddeeply,allmylawfulandlegitimatepurposeofcontactinghimwasjusttoseekforclosureandsolutionashepromisedbefore
Despitemyforgiveness&seekforclosure,CKmanipulated,setmeupstartingfromApril,defamedmeforharassment&defamation,forcedmetoenduresevereemotional&financialsuffering.Duetotheheavyburdenofattorney’sfee,Icouldnotevenaffordtopaytuitionfee,IcouldnotevenaffordthemedicaltreatmentduetothethephysicalpainandemotionaldistresscausedbyCK’ssexualviolenceandemotionalabuse
ThisisatruecopyofthefirstmessageIsenttoCKon05/10/2023,showingthatIhavebeensufferingseverephysicalandemotionalpainduetoCK’sbehaviors
BelowtwoscreenshotsaretruecopiesshowingthatmytwoaccountsofLittleRedBookwerebothreportedon05/10/2023,afterIsentCKonemessageonWeChat.ThisispartofCK’stactictosetmeup,totrapmetocontacthim,sohecanrevengeme
Exhibit21:CKhasbeenStalkingMewithSecretAccountSince04/24/2023
CKhasbeenmonitoring/stalkingmeonLittleRedBook,Himalayasince04/24/2023,withsecretaccount
Hevisitedme118timesinseveraldays
AfterIreceivedthetemporaryprotectionorder,someindividualswithIPfromChinacametofollowme,andask“ifthisisCK?”withoutanycontext,orencouragemetocontacthimorexposehim.Isuspecttheirpurpose
Exhibit22:MyRecentDiagnosefromDoctor:SevereDepression&Anxiety&PTSD
SincelateApril,Ihavebeenlivingunderseverepain,severefear,severedepression,severeanxietyandseverePTSDduetoCK’sinsult,deception,threatsandrevenge
Belowaretrueandcorrectcopiesofmydiagnosefromdoctorandtherapistrecently
FromtheveryfirsttimethatImetCKin2016throughallthewaythroughApril2023,onmultipleoccasions,IaskedCKabouthismaritalstatus,andwasconsistentlyassuredthathewassingleorunmarried.Thisturnsouttobealie,andCKalreadyadmitteditmultipletimesonApril24,2023
ShouldIknowthatallCKwaslookingforfrommewasjustanaffairwiththebenefitofsex,Iwouldneverinteractwithhimorentertainanyofhisrequeststomeet,letalonehavingromanticorintimateactivitieswithhim.WhatIwantedwasseriousrelationshipandmarriage
ShouldIknowthatCKwasmarried,Iwouldneverinteractwithhimorentertainanyofhisrequeststomeet,letalonehavingromanticorintimateactivitieswithhi