ThisistheRespondent’sresponsetoKang’sresponsetotheRespondent’s“ResponsetoPetitionforAHCPO”
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1)2016-2022.PetitionerMr.Dai(Petitioner)andRespondentRespondenthadanuncommittedsexualrelationshipandhadtwoencountersinSeptember2016andFebruary2019.Afterthat,theydidnotmeeteachotheruntilSeptember2022
ResponsefromRespondent:
2016-2022.Petitionerconcealedhismarriagestatus,initialed,pursued,developed,maintainedintimaterelationshipwithme,constantlyshowedhisaffectiontome,includingintimateconversations,invitingmetomeetwithinternationaltrips,andpromisedmemanytimes“wemayhavechanceinthefuture”.IfitwasnotduetomyscheduleconflictsandCOVID,hewouldmeetmemoretimesandhadmoresex
InSeptember2016,Petitionerinvitedmetoliveinhishomeabout4or5nights,andcomplained“Whydidn’tyoucomeearlier?”Hewantedtotalkinbed,thenheaskedforhug,thenheaskedforkiss,thenheaskedforsex
InOctober2017,PetitionersharedwithmepicturesofhisnewhomeinWashington,invitedmetovisitandstaywithhim.InNovember2017,Petitionerinitiatedintimateconversationwithme,andinvitedmetospendthe2017ThanksgivingwithhiminHawaii.(SeeExhibit1)
InFebruary2018,duringChineseNewYear,oneorfewdaysbeforetheValentine’sDay,PetitionerinvitedmetomeethimintheChinesecityZhengzhou.InDecember2018,PetitionerinvitedmetovisitSeattletospendtheChristmasand2019NewYearholidaywithhim.InOctober2019,duringhistripinChina,PetitionerinvitedmetomeethiminShanghai,andtheninsistedonmeetinginXuzhou.Whenwemet,heinitiatedintimateactions,includinghuggingme,rushingovertomeopeningmyclothestoseemybreast.Wefinallyhadsex.Thatday,PetitionertooksexualphotosofRespondentwithoutherknowledgeandconsentandshowedherafterhereturnedtoSeattle.ThephotomightbestillinhisSumSungcellphone.(SeeExhibit2)
Intheperiodfrom2018to2020,PetitionerandIhadseveraldiscussionsaboutthepossibilitythatImovedtoSeattle.InMarch2018,PetitioneralsomadejobreferralstomeinAmazonandMicrosoftinSeattle,suggestingIshouldvisithiminSeattle.Inlate2019andearly2020,PetitionerandIagaindiscussedthepossibilityformetomovetoSeattle
InJanuary2020,PetitionerbookedanairlineticketformetoflyfromBeijingtoSeattlesoIcouldspendtheLunarNewYearwithhim.BeforemydeparturefromBeijing,ItoldPetitionerthatmyperiodmaycomesoon,hisresponsewas:“Canemperor[Petitioner]haveonerequesttomybelovedwife[me]?-Buymedicinetopostponeperiod…”(SeeExhibit3)
In2020,Petitionerassuredmehisaffectiononme,alsopromisedthat“wemayhavechanceinthefuture.”,andhewasnotreadyformarriageyetwhilehewasmarried.(SeeExhibit4,5,6)
InNovember2021,Petitionertalkedabouthis“bedromance,”madeintimatecommentssuchas“flipoverandspankass”
In2023,PetitionertoldmeafterIdeletedhisWeChat,heopenedmyWeChatprofilepictureandWeChatMoments“endlesstimes”toseemeduringthat13months.(SeeExhibit7)
InJanuary2023,Petitionershowedmeastatisticthatnowdaysyoungcoupleonlyhaveabouttwicesexayear.(SeeExhibit
Therefore,Theamountofsexdoesn’thidethefactsthatPetitionerandIhadintimaterelationshipevennotphysicallytogether
2)September2022.PetitionerexplicitlyinformedtheRespondentthathewasnotsingle,despitethisdisclosure,theRespondentcontinuedtopursueasexualrelationshipwithMr.Dai.SeeExhibits1(page6)
ResponsefromRespondent:
Thisislie
InSeptember2022,Petitionerdidnotsayheisnotsingle.Ididn’t,neverpursuedsexualrelationshipwithPetitioner.Petitioner’sevidencedoesnotprovehisstatement
Petitoner’scontinuousintimatebehaviorsfrom2016to2023mademetoexpectacommittedrelationshipwithhim,includingmarriageinthepast7years,andclearlytoldhimmanytimes.ItoldhimmanytimesthatIfullytrustedandlovedhim.Healsosaidhefullytrustedandlovedme,andpromisedmefuturepossibilitiesmanytimes.Iwantedloveandmarriage,hewantedsex,that’swhyhehadsexwithmeeverytimewhenwemet
Infact,on10/18/2022,duringtheconversation,Itriedtoaskifpetitionerissingleornot,said“Iforgotifyouhavegirlfriendornot”,Petitionerdidn’treply,onlyrepliedaemojiwithahandcoveringtheface.Iwrotediarythatday,andtoldmyfriendaboutthis.Ihaveatleast3witnessfromEuropeandChinatoprovethis.(SeeExhibit9)
On10/18/2022,Petitionersaidhecanmeetmeon10/20/2022afternoon
On10/20/2022,Itwasduringoursexthathe,forthefirsttime,toldmethathewasnotsingle.Around1pm,petitionercametomyhome.Wesatonthecouchtalking,andhemovedclosetomesayingheisnotkeepingdistancewithme.Hestartedhuggingmeinvariousgestures.Heputmyheadonhisshoulder,thenliftedmeupandputmylegsaroundhiswaist,thenheliftedmeupholdingmywholebody.Afterhehuggedmeforaboutsometimeinlivingroom,hesuggestedtohugmeinmybedroom.Inmybedroom,hepushedmetothewall,heldmecloselyandstartedkissingme.ThenhegavemeaBiDong/壁咚(afamousandsexualgestureforbossinpopularChineseTV),andsaid“给你个壁咚“。Thenheputmeonmybedwithhimselfonthetop.Hehuggedmewithmoredifferentgesturesandkissedmylipandchest.Duringhavingsex,hesaidheisnotsingle.AfterIheardthat,Istopped,andcried.Hewipedmytearswithhiskiss,startedkissingmeagain,andtookoffmyclothesandhisclothes.Ifinallydidn’trefusehimbecauseIlovedhimandmissedhim.Hecameinsidemewithoutaskingformyconsent,thenhesaidweneedcondom.IsaidIdon’thaveandaskedhimifhehas.Hesmiledandaskedmetoguess.Hetookouttwocondomsfromhisjeanspocket.Iaskedhim“Youplannedthis!”Hesaid“Idon’twanttodisappointyou”.Wehadsextillabout4or5pm.Thenwehadawalkaroundlake,thenhelefthome
From10/2022to02/2023,Isuggestedafewtimesbreakup.Hesaidhedidn’tlikemetosaybreakup.Hesaidhe“wantednegativedistancewithme”,“hislovetomeis100%”,he“alwayslikesme”,he“wantedtoseeme”,he“missedme”,he“wantedtolivewithmeeverydayandsleepwithmeeverynight,”thathe,“withinthelimitedspaceandtime”,“triedhisbesttoloveandtreasure”me,“triedeverywaytoseeme”,“triedhisbesttoprotectme”,hecould“provehislovetomebymissingme,bythehighlyfrequentconversationswithme,bywithholdinghisdesireforsexwhenhemetme,byhiscareandhisspirituallovetome”.Evenon04/24/2023,whenhecalledme,andafterhethreatenedme,heassuredhis“seriousness”intherelationshiptome,andthathe“feelspainwhenhecouldnotseeme.”(SeeExhibit10,11)
3)SEXUALRELATIONSHIPENDEDFEBRUARYOF2023–PetitionertoldRespondentthatitwastimetoendthisandstopcontactinghi
ResponsefromRespondent:
Thisislie
On02/20/2023,Isuggestedbreakup,hesaidhewantstocontinuerelationshipwithme.Hediscussedwithmeafewtimesabouthowtoimproveourrelationship.On04/01/2023,heassuredmethathewantsourlongtermrelationship.On04/24/2023,afterhethreatenedmeincall,hestillsaidheplannedtoseeme3monthslaterafterhistripinChina.(SeeExhibit11)
4)Shecontinuedcontactinghim.Notoverthetop
ResponsefromRespondent:
Noevidence
Ididn’tcontacthimafterhepromisedmehewantsourrelationshipon04/01/2023.IdeletedhisWeChatandSkype.Oncontrary,heapproachedmeon04/24/2023,sentmefriendrequestonWeChat.(SeeExhibit12)
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5)Respondentadmittedshepublishedherlovestory,hidingparties’nameandpersonalinformation,forself-healingandfarewell.However,thefactisthat:
a.04/23/2023,RespondentwrotealargeamountofpornographiccontentinvolvingthedetailsofthesexlifeandpostedthemonsocialmediaplatformcalledLittleRedBook(SimilartoTwitter)
ResponsefromRespondent:
1)LittleRedBookisnotsimilartotwitter.InGooglestore,TwitterhasoneBilliondownloadswith20Millionreviews,whileLittleRedBookonlyhas5Milliondownloadsand60Kreviews.Comparingtotwitter,LittleRedBookisnothing.Actually,LittleRedBookismainlypopulartoyoungChinesefemales.(SeeExhibit13)
2)Evidence?99%ofthereadersseemypainfullove,lessthan1%seesex.Whatoneseesreflectsone’smind.(SeeExhibit14,15,16)
b.04/23/2023,RespondentknewMr.Daiisaninfluencerontheinternet,soshehadtheintentionofharmingMr.Dai’sreputationanddemandingcompensationbyexposinghischannelnameandexposinghisinitialsinherposts.SeeExhibits2(page6)
ResponsefromRespondent:
1)Noevidencetoprove“intentionofharming”
2)MystoryismytrueexperiencewithPetitioner.On04/24/2023,whenpetitionercalledme,heagreedthatmystoryistrue
3)Ididn’tmentionhispersonalinformationtoprotecthisprivacy
In04/2020,IknewhisWeibo.Inabout03/2022,IheardhispodcastonHimalaya.Inabout2023,InoticedhisLittleRedBook
From2020to2023,whenItoldPetitionerthatIsawhissocialmedia,hetoldmehedoesn’ttellanyofhisfamilymember,friend,colleagueabouthissocialmedia,thatheonlywantstotellwhenonedayit’smoresuccessful.SoIthoughtnoneofhisfriends/colleaguesknowhissocialmedia.(SeeExhibit17)
Inmystory,Imentioned“xx说美国“,”3Millionplays”“30000subscribers”.However,1)Iused“xx”toprotecthisprivacy.From“xx说美国“,it’snoteasytofindhisaccount.(SeeExhibit1
Actually,thisisspreadbyAmazonbeautygroup,asocialmediacommunityonWeChat,whichhas500Chinesefemalemembers,whoareAmazonemployeesorthewivesofmaleChineseAmazonemployees.Theyforwardedmystory,anddiscussed,foundPetitioner’sLittleRedBook,thenonefemalememberputallpiecestogether,thenaskedherfriend,andthenfoundhisinsandsawthephotosofPetitioner’sbabythatpostedbyPetitioneronsocialmedia,thenrevealedthetruththatPetitionermarriedatleastin2017andhasababyfrom02/2023.(SeeExhibit19)
Petitioner’saccounthadabout9Millionplays,40000subscribersin04/2023,notas”3Millionplays”“30000subscribers”mentionedinmystory.(SeeExhibit20)
c.05/16/2023,TheRespondentwenttogreatlengthstopubliclydisclosethePetitioner'sfullname,makingatleast10suchpoststhatwereaccessibletohisaudienceofapproximately40,000subscribers
ResponsefromRespondent:
Whatdoesthismean???What10posts???Whereisevidenceof“engageinternetviolence”???“threaten?”-anyChinesespeakerknowstherewasnothreats,pleaseasktheinternetuserswhopostedandcommentedmystoryandmakesstatistic
Regardingfullname:(Idon’tseewhereisit?)
1)PetitionerdeniedhisChinesenameisDaiKang/代抗On03/21/2023and04/24/2023.AsIdon’tknowhisrealnametillnow,Ihavenowaytodisclosehisname
2)Whenpetitionerreportedmetopoliceon05/01/2023,policeclearlytoldhimthat“name”ispublicinformation.(SeeExhibit21)
3)Petitioner’sfollowerapproachedtomeandsaid“name,marriage,havingchild”arepublicinformationinChina.(SeeExhibit22)
d.05/16/2023,RespondentthreatenedPetitioneronhersocialmedia,stating,“Ineedcompensation”,“Ifyoudon'tanswermeorcometoseeme,Iwilltryallmeanstofindpeoplewhomightknowyou.“SeeExhibits3(page9)
ResponsefromRespondent:
1)IamnotactiveonHimalaya,Istartedtouseitfrom03/2022,lasttimeIuseditasabout11/2022.Ihadabout90inactive/dead/fakefollowers,nooneeverleftcommentorcommunicatedtome
2)“Ineedcompensation”,becausePetitionerpromisedmeon04/24/2023,thatI“couldbringanydemandtohim”duetohis7yearsliesandhurtingtome.(SeeExhibit31)
3)Ididn’tsay“ifyoudon’tcometoseeme”,Ididn’tsay“Iwilltryallmeans”.ThisiscompletewrongandmisleadingtranslationfromChinesetoEnglish
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6)RespondentadmittedshevisitedthePetitioner’sneighborhoodandonlytook2pictures.However,thefactis:
a.05/01/2023.ShepostedthepicturestogetherwithMr.Dai’sprivateaudiorecordonhersocialmediawithoutobtaininganyauthorization,whichisaclearviolationofprivacy.Furthermore,sheintentionallymarkedthelocationastheneighborhoodofthePetitioner'sproperty,seeminglywiththeintentionofmakingthreatsorcausingintimidation.SeeExhibits4(page10)
ResponsefromRespondent:
1)Thefactisthat:Imeanttosayfarewellformyinternalclosureoftherelationship,it’sonlyaboutmyself,nothingabouthim.(SeeExhibit23)
2)Ididn’t“intentionally”markedlocationas“neighborhoodofthePetitioner'sproperty”.it’srandomly-setlocationbecauseIwasinIssaquah,becausethereisnolocationcalledIssaquahonLittleRedBook.That’showLittleRedBookworks.“SwedishIssaquahCampus”isover3200feetawayfromtheneighborhood“Issaquahwesthighland”.Ididn’t“seeminglyasameansofissuingthreatsorengaginginintimidationtactics”,noevidence,thisisdefamationonme.(SeeExhibit24from“JacobsonDeclaration”)
3)On04/24/2023,afterPetitionercalledme,Ididn’trecordthecallinthebeginning.Afterhethreatenedmewithhisdeathataround3AM,whichmademeveryscared.Unknowninternetusersremindedmetorecordthecallasevidencetoprotectmyself.SoIrecordedtoprotectmyself.Hiscallwasfullofblames,threats,leis,beggingandmanipulation.Atthattime,Ididn’tknowthatIneedhisauthorizationtorecord,Iwastooscaredandexhaustedandjustwantedtoprotectmyself.Onewhohearsthecallwillknowhowhedeceivedme,blamedme,threatenedmeandmanipulatedme,willunderstandtheentirematter.However,untilIhiredattorney,IlearnedthatIneedopposingparty’sauthoritytorecordthecallinWA.Atthattime,Ijustwantedtoprotectmyself.Ineverexperiencedthisinmylife
4)Anyonewhoseethispostisnotabletolistentoit,asit’sjustagooglelink,averylongandcomplicatedlink.Theconversationissavedinprivategooglelink
5)Thepurposeofthelinkistodefendmyselffromcountlessdisgustingdefamationonme,asunknowninternetuserssuggestedthosedefamationfromPetitioner,Petitioner’swifeortheirfriends.(SeeExhibit25,26)
6)Itoldpetitioneraboutthedefamation,butheignoredit
7)ToprotectPetitioner’sprivacy,Iremovedthepartthatincludes/coulddisclosePetitioner’spersonalinformationincludinghisname.Therefore,it’sonlyabout1.5hours,not3or4hoursashecalledme.(Petitionertooksexualphotoofmewithoutmyknowledgeandconsent!)
8)Thelinkdoesn’tworkwell.Anotherlinkisblank.(SeeExhibit27)
9)Thegooglelinkofourconversationworkedataroundnoontimeon05/01/2023,afewhourslater,Isetthepermissiontoprivate,sonoonecanlistentoit,asIwantedtomoveon.Ialsodeleteditlater.(SeeExhibit2
10)Thelinkalsoincludedmyvoice.SoPetitioner’sevidenceshowedthatPetitioneralsorecordedmyvoicewithoutmyauthorization
11)Thecall/conversation/voiceisnotprivate,becausewhenhecalledme,hewasinahospital-apublicplace,andtherewerethirdpartiesspeaking,forexample,hiswifespokewithmeandhelpedhimlie,therewaspass-by’svoicesandhornsound
b.SheusedPetitionerdog’spictureasherprofilephoto,seeminglyasameansofissuingthreatsorengaginginintimidationtactics
ResponsefromRespondent:
1)Noevidenceof“seeminglyasameansofissuingthreatsorengaginginintimidationtactics”
2)ThepictureofthedogispublishedbyPetitioneronsocialmediaWeiboin2020.it’sapublicpicture.(SeeExhibit29)
3)Iusedthepictureon04/23/2023.nothingtodowith05/01/2023
4)Ididn’tdisclosehisIDwhenIusedthispicture.IintentionallycutoffthepartincludeshisIDtoprotecthisprivacy.(SeeExhibit30)
5)On04/24/2023,whenPetitionercalledme,hesaid“canyouhideyouspostwithprofilepictureofthedog?”Heknewaboutthepicture,hedidn’trequestmetoremoveit,butonlywaitedtill05/16/2023,herequestedinhispetitionforprotectionorder.ActuallyIremoveditsoon
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7)RespondentacknowledgedreachingouttothePetitionerdespitethePetitioner'ssilence.Thefactisthaton04/24/2023,afternoticedthe“lovestories”ontheinternet,thePetitionercontactedwiththeRespondent,requestingthedeletionoftheposts.Inresponse,theRespondentconsistentlydemandedanapology.ThePetitionerapologizedthroughbothmessagesandcalls,butdespitethis,theRespondentfailedtodeletethepost.Furthermore,theRespondentpersistentlyinsistedonanapologyandcompensation.Inthisregard,thePetitionerstatedthefollowingtoaskhertostop:
a.“Noneedtosayanything,that’sit,Bye”
b.“Idon’twanttocallagain,let’senditonceforall.Ican’tdowhatyouorderanymore”SeeExhibits5(page11)
ResponsefromRespondent:
1)“RespondentacknowledgedreachingouttothePetitionerdespitethePetitioner'ssilence.”isawrongexpression.Icontactedhimbecause1)Iwantedexplanationfromthemanwhodeceivedmeandmanipulatedmefor7yearswhileclearlyknowingthatIlovedhim.2)becausehepromisedthat“Icouldbringanydemands”,thatheplansto“continuouslyapologizetomeandlistentomydemands”.(SeecompleteconversationhistoryinExhibit31)
2)“PetitionercontactedwiththeRespondent,requestingthedeletionoftheposts.”“Respondentfailedtodeletethepost.”Thisislie.Whereisevidence?Infact,Asherequested,Ididhidemypost.(SeeExhibit32,33)
WhyshouldIlistentohimforeverything?Mywritingofanonymouslovestoryismyspeechfreedom!Heusedtodominateourrelationship,actedaslikeemperor/king/mastertome.Forexample,once,WhenheplannedtomeetmeandwhenItoldKangDaithatmyperiodmaycomesoon,hisresponsewas:“Canemperor[KangDai]haveonerequesttomybelovedwife[me]?-Buymedicinetopostponeperiod…”
Whatdidhedoforme?
3)Whenpetitionerapologizedtomeoncallorbymessageforhisdeception,itwashismanipulationtorequestmetohidemyposts.Hetoldmemorelies.Thetruthisinthecall.SeecompleteconversationhistoryinExhibit31)
4)AfterIsentthatdeedtoPetitioner,after20morehours,ataround9pmon04/24/2023,Petitioneradmittedhisdeception“frombeginningtoend”.afterthat,IfirsttimeaskedforapologybyWeChatCall.Herefused.Asawomanwhohasbeenliedtoandhurtforsuchalongtime,whofullytrustedandlovedhiminthepast,Iwantedacall.SeecompleteconversationhistoryinExhibit31)
8)04/24/2023,Respondentsaid“Myrelationshipwithyouisover.”Then,shesaidshewantscompensation.Becauseheliedtoherandimpactedherformanyyears
ResponsefromRespondent:
“Myrelationshipwithyouisover.”hasnoconflicttorequestinganapologybycallfromthemanwhodeceivedandmanipulatedmefor7years,whothreatenedme,usedmeagaintoprotecthimself,andespeciallyPetitionertoldmethat“Icouldbringanydemands”,thatheplansto“continuouslyapologizetomeandlistentomydemands”.(SeecompleteconversationhistoryinExhibit31)
9)After04/24/2023,Mr.Daistoppedansweringanyhercalls/messages/email
ResponsefromRespondent:
On04/24/2023,Petitionertoldmethat“Icouldbringanydemands”,thatheplansto“continuouslyapologizetomeandlistentomydemands”.(SeecompleteconversationhistoryinExhibit31)
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10)Respondentadmittedshecontactedthirdparties,thefactisthatsheharassedalargeamountofnon-relatedpartiesincludingthePetitioner,hisfamily,company,managers,collogues,andRespondentsentmultipleemailstoanemaillistincludingrandomamazonemployeestodamagethePetitioner’sreputation
ResponsefromRespondent:
1)“sheharasseda“-nottrue,Ididn’t“harass”(SeeExhibit34)
2)“largeamount“-nottrue,not“largeamount”,only5or6receiptswhoarePetitioner’ssurperviorsandHR.(SeeExhibit34)
3)“hisfamily”-who?Whereisevidence?
4)“toanemaillistincludingrandomamazonemployees”-nottrue,only5or6receiptswhoarePetitioner’ssurperviorsandHR.(SeeExhibit34)
5)“todamagethePetitioner’sreputation”-nottrue,Ididn’thavethisintention
DuetoPetitioner’sthreatsinvariouswayson04/24/2023,(seeExhibit31),duetoonlinepostsattackingmeandinsultingmewithslandersanddefamation,whichhadover100000views,andweresuggestedtobefromPetitioner,Petitioner’swife,andfriends,(Exhibit25,26)OnApril27,2023,fearingthatKangDaimayfurtherdefamemyreputation,andduetohisthreatsonApril24,2023andthoseonlinedefamationwhichcausedmyseverefear,afteralotofhesitation,IsentemailtoKangDai’ssupervisorsandHRatAmazontoreportKangDai’smisbehaviors.IdecidedtoreportKangDaitohissupervisorsatAmazonalsobecauseIbelievedthatKangDai’semployerasneutralthirdparty,shouldhavetheauthoritytomakeaninternalinvestigationandrevealthetruth.Becausehesaidhiscolleaguesallknewalready,andhissupervisorsareChinese,andinChineseculture,mangerandemployeecanmanagesuchtopicprivatelyandpeacefully.IdidnotreporthimtothepoliceasIwashopingtoresolvetheproblemsprivatelyandpeacefullywithKangDai.(SeeExhibit34)
Nextday,IreceivedreplyfromAmazonHR,whoinvitedinternalinvestigatortoconductinvestigationonthismatter.OnMay2,2023,Amazoninvestigatorinvitedmetoattendameetingatthesamedayforinvestigation.OnMay8,AmazonnotifiedmethatinvestigationwithKangDaiwaspostponedtoJulyduetohisoffwork2months,andtheinvestigationwillonlyconductafterhisreturntowork.IhaveneverreceivedanynoticefromAmazonInc.,orfromanyofKangDai’ssupervisorsthatmyreporthadharassedanyoneormisbehavedanyway.Oncontrary,AmazonHR,investigatorandhissupervisorallrepliedme,andtolemeAmazonencouragesanyonetoreportanyconcern,andpromisedtotakeitseriously.(SeeExhibit34)
11)FromaboutApril24nighttoaboutMay13,shestartedcallingandmessagingPetitionermultipletimeseveryweekandaskingforfinancialcompensation
a.Contactingupto12timesaday
i.April24night,11messages,1call
ii.April25,3messages
iii.April26,1message
iv.April28,1message
v.May10,6messages
vi.May11,3messages
vii.May12,2messages
viii.May13,1message
Duringthistimeperiod,heneverresponded
ResponsefromRespondent:
1)(SeeExhibit35)
2)Everyweek?From04/28/2023-05/10/2023,about2weeksnocontact,asIdecidedtomoveon,afterPetitionerdeceived,manipulated,hurtmefor7years.(SeeExhibit35)
3)“askingforfinancialcompensation.”aspromisedbypetitionerthat“Icouldbringanydemands”,thatheplansto“continuouslyapologizetomeandlistentomydemands”.(SeecompleteconversationhistoryinExhibit31)
4)“heneverresponded”-hedidn’trespondafterhedeceived,manipulated,hurtmefor7years,andafterhethreatenedmeinvariousways.SeecompleteconversationhistoryinExhibit31)
12)APRIL28,Mr.DaiwasdiagnosedasDepressionwithanxietycausedbytheaboveevent.SeeExhibits6(page12)
ResponsefromRespondent:
Thereisnoevidencetoprovetheconnectionwithme
Evidencedoesn’tshowdate,hospital,doctor
However,Ihavecompassiononhim.Itmustnotfeelwellafter7yearscheatingwasexposedbyhisfriends.Hemustalsohadlotsofpressurewhilemeetingmeduringhiswife’spregnancy
Actually,in05/2023and06/2023,afterheknewIreceivedthetemporaryprotectionorder,hestartedworkingonsocialmedia,withverycheerfulvoice.(SeeExhibit36)
13)APRIL30,sheposted2googledrivelinkson,oneofthemostinfluentialChinesecommunitiesinNorthAmerica.(Impactofthepost:38K+views,77comments)
a.OnelinkisthesamecontentaspostedintheLittleRedBook
b.TheotheroneistheaudiorecordofthecallswithhimonApril24,withouthisauthorization.SeeExhibits7(page12)
ResponsefromRespondent:
1)Repeatagainasmentionedthisin“Page1point6,a,b”
2)isNOT“oneofthemostinfluentialChinesecommunitiesinNorthAmerica.”,atleastIdon’tknow.Iregisteredmyaccounton04/23/2023asinternetusermentionedtomeaboutthiswebsite.(SeeExhibit37)
3)isforpeoplewhostudyorworkinU.S.That’sall.(SeeExhibit3
4)Mypostisundersubject“Intimacy”.(SeeExhibit39)
5)“38K+views,77comments”-Itdoesn’tmean38K+peoplereadit;“77”doesn’tmean77comments,anyChinesereaderknowit.Onegooglelinkeddoesn’twork,onegooglelinkisblank.Therefore,“impact”isnottrue.(SeeExhibit27)
6)Thegooglelinkofourconversationwaspublishedon05/01/2023ataroundnoontime,afewhourslater,Isetthepermissiontoprivate,sonoonecanlistentoit,asIwantedtomoveon.Ialsodeleteditlater.(SeeExhibit2
7)Ifyoulookatthepost,youwillseemostarejustargumentsbetweeninternetusers,notrelevanttopetitioner.Someareslanderstowardsme.Pleasereadthepost
12)“audiorecord”-Repeatthisagainasmentionedthisin“Page1point6,a,b”.On04/24/2023,afterPetitionercalledme,Ididn’trecordthecallinthebeginning.Afterhethreatenedmewithhisdeathataround3AM(SeeExhibit31),whichmademeveryscared.Unknowninternetusersremindedmetorecordthecallasevidencetoprotectmyself.SoIrecordedtoprotectmyself.Hiscallwasfullofblames,threats,leis,beggingandmanipulation.Atthattime,Ididn’tknowthatIneedhisauthorizationtorecord,Iwastooscaredandexhaustedandjustwantedtoprotectmyself.Onewhohearsthecallwillknowhowhedeceivedme,blamedme,threatenedmeandmanipulatedme,willunderstandtheentirematter.However,untilIhiredattorney,IlearnedthatIneedopposingparty’sauthoritytorecordthecallinWA.Atthattime,Ijustwantedtoprotectmyself.Ineverexperiencedthisinmylife
13)Petitioner’sevidenceshowedthathealsorecordedyvoicewithoutmyauthorization
14)Thecall/conversation/voiceisnotprivate,becausewhenhecalledme,hewasinahospital-apublicplace,andtherewerethirdpartiesspeaking,forexample,hiswifespokewithmeandhelpedhimlie,therewaspass-by’svoicesandhornsound
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14)MAY2,shetookphotosfromhisneighborhoodandusehisdog’spicasherprofilephoto
ResponsefromRespondent:
1)Repeatthisagainasmentionedthisin“Page1point6,a,b”
2)May1,notMay2
3)Itookphotos,asIfoundtheviewbeautiful.Ihavefreedomtotakephotos.(SeeRespondentDeclaration&JacobsonDeclaration,seeExhibit24)
4)Thefactisthat:Imeanttosayfarewellformyinternalclosureoftherelationship,it’sonlyaboutmyself,nothingabouthim.(SeeExhibit23,24)
5)ThepictureofthedogispublishedbyPetitioneronsocialmediaWeiboin2020.it’sapublicpicture.(SeeExhibit29)
6)Iusedthepictureon04/23/2023.nothingtodowith05/01/2023
7)Ididn’tdisclosehisIDwhenIusedthispicture.IintentionallycutoffthepartincludeshisIDtoprotecthisprivacy.(SeeExhibit30)
8)On04/24/2023,whenPetitionercalledme,hesaid“canyouhideyouspostwithprofilepictureofthedog?”Heknewaboutthepicture,hedidn’trequestmetoremoveit,butonlywaitedtill05/16/2023,herequestedinhispetitionforprotectionorder.ActuallyIremoveditsoon
Forbelowpoints15-21,SeeExhibit40,41,42,43,44,45,46,47,thestatisticsandthecontentofmycontact.Asawomanwhowasdeceivedandmanipulatedinthepast7years,aspromisedbypetitionerthat“Icouldbringanydemands”,thatheplansto“continuouslyapologizetomeandlistentomydemands”(SeecompleteconversationhistoryinExhibit31),allofmylegitimatepurposetocontacthimistoseekforexplanation,closure,compensationashepromised
Therewasonlyoneday,on05/15/2023,Icalledhimover20timesintotal.Mycallsweredrivenbyemotionalsadnessneedforexplanationsandclosure,buttheyonlyoccurredonthatspecificdayandwerelimitedtoasingleinstance,1timein7-years